I fancy my doctor that I see on a regular basis, I've told him this and I've told the man i'm with also.?

Don't feel bad or guilty for sleeping with your own husband! All's fair in love and war. It's up to him to stay faithful to the woman he cheated on you with, although clearly he is okay with cheating on both you and her, so he sounds like a bit of a pig.

I doubt that relationship will last, I'm sure he'll be back sooner or later. I don't advise you to let your five year old live with them, tell him no because you don't think that relationship will last (yup, tell him this) and you don't want to expose your precious daughter to any woman he shacks up with, that you will only consider allowing your child to live there a little longer than a visit, IF he marries that woman, and not before. And then get on with you life and date other men, and let him SEE that so he can decide if he really wants to lose you.

Dear Confused. He is still your husband the other woman can go F**K herself, literally. :) That being said.

If ya'll agreed to see other people while separated don't be to angry. Separation is a touchy area. If you want your husband back then start wooing honey you have found your opening.

Be civil especially since children are involved. Take care of yourself and if you want your marriage fight for it. If not then back off and behave.

And let his whore have him. Never feel guilty for being intimate with what is by law yours. You have done nothing wrong together you are married.

He is doing wrong by being with the other woman. The situation seems to be in your favor to decide what you want. Its up to you.

Good luck honey you need all the luck you can get.

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