I hate my daughter-in-law, she is rude, selfish, uses me to babysit and thats it. Want to cut all ties?

I hate my daughter-in-law, she is rude, selfish, uses me to babysit and thats it. Want to cut all ties. Asked by Willbealone 24 days ago Similar questions: hate daughter in law rude selfish babysit cut ties Family > Childcare.

Similar questions: hate daughter in law rude selfish babysit cut ties.

Your grandkids and son won't miss you a bit, the heck with everyone. Is that what you really want?

You better be careful what you wish for. Cutting her off would also mean cutting off your grandchildren. Are you sure you want that?

No one is obligated to be victimized by the bad behavior of others. However, if you babysit, that means you must have grandkids. If you cut all ties, it would be with them too.

That would be sad. What of your son? How about you quit being used by her.

Don't burn bridges, just be more aggressive. Say NO. Quit caring about how she treats you and just focus on your grandkids.

Ignore her childish behavior. Don't even let her think her rudeness is registering. There's nothing more disappointing to a rude person than to have their rudeness ignored.Be teflon.

Afterawhile, you really won't care how she acts. That's her problem. Cut all of your reactionary ties.

I Have an older friend, and she has 3 married kids, with children. None of her kids or their wives will speak to her. She also has grand kids she doesn't see, ever!

She is a very sad reflective person. Don't let this happen to you.

If I wanted to be with my grandkids and my daughter in law was as you explained I would just do what ever it took to let go of however she is and focus on the grand kids and be with them as much as I could. Family is everything to me and truth is, you can't pick your daughter in law. Sad when they're truly as you explain.

Bless your heart and just keep your grandkids in mind and forgive your daughter in law her rude, relfish ways; she must be truly suffering so much in order to treat someone so harshly. Grace and acceptance a lot of the times seems to ease the harsh ways people can be. Raise above it and be there for your grand kids and show them what it looks like to live in Grace, acceptance, peace, love and joy.

Well, if you hate her, quit having contact with her. And, you are not required to provide free babysitting - you, and no one else, is allowing that to happen. Stand up for yourself and tell her you're no doing it any more.

But, be prepared for the backlash.

" "Am I being selfish?" "My daughter is almost 13 and is in my opinion quite mature. She's been asked to babysit overnight at a cousin's home..." "Do you hate going to the mall? I'm not a big "shopper", but sometimes my daughter wants me to go with her..........." "How should my daughter handle her mother in law?" "how old do you have to babysit in maryland" "How can I be closer to my daughter in law?

When she seems to have no desire to have any relationship with me. " (11 answers) "Why does my daughter-in-law keep my son away from me?" "should a father always kiss his daughter in law.

My daughter is almost 13 and is in my opinion quite mature. She's been asked to babysit overnight at a cousin's home...

I'm not a big "shopper", but sometimes my daughter wants me to go with her...........

How old do you have to babysit in maryland.

When she seems to have no desire to have any relationship with me. " (11 answers).

Should a father always kiss his daughter in law.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.