I suspect my husband is cheating again. lie detector?

Wow I'm sorry you're going through this while pregnant. You could be having a miscarriage or something life threatening, so its imperative that you get an actual doctor to look at you and make sure its okay. Sometimes when people are really stressed out they have lapses in judgement.

I've yelled about things I shouldn't have before when I was stressed out. I'm sure you have too. Maybe your husband is stressed because of finances for example.

Add to that you're feeling ill- now he's also frustrated because there's nothing he can do to help. Add to that the stress of working 7 days a week... you can see how it would add up. He probably has no idea how to tell you that.

You say last night he came home mad? Maybe he wanted some sympathy too, or at least some space to cool down after whatever happened at work. If I were you, I would talk to him when he comes back around.

Have a really really non confrontational talk. Let go of your anger at him, and try to see it from his pov. Wave your white flag.

You need him right now and it seems like he wants to be there. If you two don't have an honest, open CARING talk, where you BOTH try to see one another's pov, things are only going to spiral out of control. You both need to admit that your stressed out and acted irrational.

You both need to apologize for the way you acted. No matter how hard your pregnancy is, or how stressed out your husband is... don't treat one another like dirt. You both need to agree to that.

Start off by putting your ego and anger aside and saying I'm sorry. Then you need to agree to let each other know, point blank, what you need from one another, and do your best to EQUALLY fulfill each other's needs. Or equally compromise so that sometimes you can get what you need, and sometimes your husband can get what he needs.

You also need to ask one another, point blank, what THEY need if they don't offer up any needs. Example: You: "I need someone to listen to me whine about my pain for 10 minutes. All you have to do is be sympathetic and maybe cuddle with me.

I need to feel loved right now." Husband: "Okay, but after that I need 10 minutes to myself to get rid of some stress from work today /or/ I need to talk to you about what happened at work today and receive the same sympathy." Get what I'm saying?

Hope this helps.

Divorce is a night mare for children the sad thing about this problem is that children are always the innocent victims of this horrible crime there are a lot of reasons for this crime to be committed – First of all : lack of love – no respect –no trust between spouses – if the wife for example thinks that her husband is not honest or the husband thinks his wife is betraying him – if the wife thinks that the social status of her family is better and higher than her husband so she start to insult him and treat him as a slave Second reason: one of them believes in rumors which other people say about his partner without asking honest people or her husband about the truth Third reason : it might be that this marriage had been built for self-benefit the husband is fox and wants the money of his rich famous wife - then when he become rich he starts his own business and start looking for few teenager pretty girlfriend The poor child is always victim of commandments of divorce He feels lonely – He feels no body take care of him – He feels no body love him - no body listen to him – he does have a bright future – he can not concentrate on his school – he feels that his grades are very poor – he said when I hear my friends talk about talking about the lovely and happy times which the spend with their parents but my parents are separated I feel very sad – mad - and sorry about the situation that I have Some time I need extra money but my mother connot afford to give me – so I call my father but he ignore me and not replay - so I ask for a loan from my bad friends - or I steal something and sell it to get extra money Finally I ask all parents to think about the future of their children and take into account the disastrous hardship they will face before getting divorce.

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