If you suddenly realized you developed feelings of attraction to your best friend, would you tell them? Even if it may complicate things?

Well let's see, both of my best friends are men and I am a woman, so yes it could and it did get dicey. My first best friend was my fiance 35 years ago that I've always stayed in touch with over the years. In more ways that one.

And probably because of that, we are best friends and feel we can tell each other anything. Then my second best friend is my husband that is soon to be my ex-husband and we are separated right now-have been since November. I have technically not been a wife with him for the past 8 years but we have been best friends.In fact, I talked to his new girlfriend last night, soon to be fiance, trying to tell her, that I don't want him back, she can have him, but I would like to remain friends with him.

I miss that. And I'm glad I talked to her. I didn't tell her anything bad about him.

She can find out on her own. :-) But she felt insecure and she was scared he was going to come back to me. I said " heck no!

" We talked for over 2 hours like we had been friends for years. Now we are on the same wave length and she knows what the guidelines are and so do I. I hope to have my 2 best friends for the rest of my life, but there will never be anything intimate with either of them ever again.

That's sort of a tricky thing to answer, since my best friend is another woman, but I suppose if my best friend was a man, I would feel out whether or not a romantic relationship would be possible. What could be better than ending up married to your best friend? If you're really good friends, you should also be able to recover from something like one person wanting more and the other not.

Life isn't worth much without some risk, and that sounds like one worth taking.

Well let's see, both of my best friends are men and I am a woman, so yes it could and it did get dicey. My first best friend was my fiance 35 years ago that I've always stayed in touch with over the years. In more ways that one.

And probably because of that, we are best friends and feel we can tell each other anything. Then my second best friend is my husband that is soon to be my ex-husband and we are separated right now-have been since November. I have technically not been a wife with him for the past 8 years but we have been best friends.

In fact, I talked to his new girlfriend last night, soon to be fiance, trying to tell her, that I don't want him back, she can have him, but I would like to remain friends with him. I miss that. And I'm glad I talked to her.

I didn't tell her anything bad about him. She can find out on her own. :-) But she felt insecure and she was scared he was going to come back to me.

I said " heck no! " We talked for over 2 hours like we had been friends for years. Now we are on the same wave length and she knows what the guidelines are and so do I.

I hope to have my 2 best friends for the rest of my life, but there will never be anything intimate with either of them ever again.

First my wife is my best friend so she already knows. Second I would never develop feeling for the next in line as that is a guy and I don't have those tendencies. And if it was a women I already have a wife so that's out of line also.

That depends entirely on the nature of our relationship. Sure, we are best friends, but are we able to talk about anything without feeling awkward? Do I feel as though my best friend could feel the same way about me and if so, could we ever make a exclusive relationship work?

Are the common interests and comfortable sense of belonging we share be enough to make for a successful romantic relationship? I would likely hint around and try to feel out the situation prior to letting on to my true feelings. I would try to flirt and make lots of eye contact to try and become aware of my friend's feelings and reactions.

If/When I felt comfortable enough (if he responded in a similar manner or demonstrated increased interest), I would proceed to make him aware of my feelings for him and see how he feels about my revelation.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.