I'm so depress because I'll never get married! Will there ever be hope?

LOL @feefee As you would say "Astagfirrullah YO! Astagfirullah!" I am in the process of getting a marriage sorted to this Cardiff girl.

It is still quite far away as in our cultures it takes a while to sort this stuff out... plus I got to get my degree finished this month and cramp a full time masters course in computing forensics while they are arranging the whole thing. It feels good that I don't have the urge to sin anymore knowing this and knowing I am going to be blessed with this beautiful religious Cardiff girl soon, she is just like me we have so much in common and the same passion. EDIT "@ Sahhid : Thats beautiful mashallah!

I cannot wait till I get married...i hate having this urge...its like torment..." By all means girl get married your 20. N Thanks for this question I wasn't feeling too great today been travelling a lot today and forgot about all the good things I have, but you just reminded me how lucky I was to find such a rare diamond... how lucky I am finding my other half, for Allah has made us all in pairs. I feel like I don't even deserve her sometimes... I'm talking like as if I am already married to her.... >.

Deniss "There is nothing wrong with dating it is normal" In your culture you may see it as normal but we do not. I'm not the one to talk... but through my mistakes of dating I found out first hand why dating is wrong. It just brings misery, drama, temporary happiness, mischief and shame upon the family.

I can give you a list of hundred of things on why it is wrong, but being bought up in a culture where teenage pregnancy is normal to you guys these days I wouldn't expect you to understand. Please avoid giving corrupt information out to other Muslim, especially those who are fighting urges.

Yes I do lol. As much as I'd love to be an amazing wife, I sometimes think I don't have it in me, mainly because im too picky and I think I'd have problems with everyone.. :( but I'm just 16 :P and I do like the idea of getting married young (< 20) InshaAllah.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.