Is it Strange to be 19 and Attracted to Older Men?

Young women feeling attracted to older men is not strange at all... In fact, it's fairly common. One reason is the fatherly figure. At 18, you're a very young adult.

When going to college and moving into your own place, mom and dad won't always be there for you anymore. It's hard to let that go. So younger women feel attracted to older men because they feel "protected".

A second reason is actually a misconception. Girls assume that an older man is more mature. However, this is NOT always the case.

I've seen lots of 30-year-olds who are less mature than I was when I was 18. If you really think about it... Is a man really "mature" if he dates teenagers? Large age gaps can have issues, even for adults.

The first is basis of relationship. Do they actually have anything in common, or is it just based on physical attraction? If I was 30 and could date a hot 20-year-old, I'd do it in a heartbeat.

It might not last long, but I'd enjoy it while it did. The other issue is a difference in stages of life. A 20-year-old should be in college and doing her homework.

A 35-year-old should be well-established with a career and a mortgage. What could these two people possibly have in common?

You like what you like. You seem to find a man that is stable and secure sexy. There is nothing wrong with that.

As long as they are not controling and so demanding go for it.

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