Is there a site where I can find someone that's legit like eHarmony or Christain Mingle, just without the cost?

Plenty of Fish seems to be reasonable. But just make sure you have a good screening process and some loaded questions to avoid the jerks.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.