My 21 yr old daughter's boyfriend just started staying at our house one nite and never left! how do we get him out? help?

My 21 yr old daughter's boyfriend just started staying at our house one nite and never left! How do we get him out? Help I don't even think this guy has a bed in his mother's house since she and his little brother moved in with her boyfriend.

This is seriously pi**ing me off! Even my daughter is getting tired of him and keeps picking fights with him to get him to go away! My hubby and I bust our butts all day as pharmacists to keep a nice lifestyle, and this guy is enjoying the gravy.

We like him. But enough is enough! I'm even doing the turd's laundry and cooking for him!

I know, grow a spine, but please, some suggestions! I'm not good at this stuff! Asked by frobie 45 months ago similar questions: 21 yr daughter's boyfriend started staying house nite left help arts > books.

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HONEY- Do List! Give his some responsibilities that would make life easier for you. Really it is as simple as just jotting down a thing or two for him to do so he can participate in 'team work".Something.. just drop a little note Simple tasks, and get out of there -so he can read the note without you around, otherwise ackward.

Oh make sure the note is posted where he can see it THE FRIDGE DOOR IS A SURE BET. It is a good way to break through this. I know about the spine comment and it is especially your daughters lesson.

GOOD LUCK. GBLESS. So simple note, see if he steps up.

If not, your daughter is going to see this "literally in writing", if he is "trying".

You kick his behind to the curb. This is your house and you pay the bills and buy the groceries. Right now you are allowing him to do this.

The best thing you could do is tell him that he has to move and give so many days to move. Then if he doesn't leave it's time to call the local police and find out what you have to do to get him out. I live in fl and if you give someone a home and their things are there I don't think you can just put them out.

This is your house and unless you want things to stay the way they are you are going to have to lay down the law on this and that means doing whatever necessary to remove him from your home. Sources: personal opinion .

You walk up to him and say "you have to leave, you cannot stay here. " He has a mother so he can leave immediately. It doesn't matter if his mother has a room for him or not.

He can sleep on her floor. It is her child not yours. If he refuses to leave call the police and have him escorted out.

If he causes a fuss get a restraining order. You also need to have a talk with your daughter about how she selects boyfriends. And you're right about yourself.

Your spine should have arched the second he wanted to stay overnight. The operative word here is NO! .

1 First suggestion is to turn off your caps lock. You say you like this guy, and then you call him a turd. Have you shared your concerns with him?

Do you have a back up plan if he has no where else to go? How about earning his keep by doing chores or paying rent? Ask him what his plans are and share your concerns.

He should have offered, but you should have laid down the ground rules at the beginning. Don't wait too long, or kicking him out will require a legal eviction, which can take time and money.

First suggestion is to turn off your caps lock. You say you like this guy, and then you call him a turd. Have you shared your concerns with him?

Do you have a back up plan if he has no where else to go? How about earning his keep by doing chores or paying rent? Ask him what his plans are and share your concerns.

He should have offered, but you should have laid down the ground rules at the beginning. Don't wait too long, or kicking him out will require a legal eviction, which can take time and money.

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