My 23-year-old son recently moved back home and it is ruining my private life. Help?

My 23-year-old son recently moved back home and it is ruining my private life. Help! Asked by livinthedream 2 months ago Similar questions: 23 year old son recently moved back home ruining private life Help Science > Psychology.

Similar questions: 23 year old son recently moved back home ruining private life Help.

He moved back home because his life took a plunge when he got into a lot of debt. He was in a bad relationship with a girl who took him for everything. He lost his job, his truck and basically all that he had.

S father (my ex-husband) wouldn't take him in. I felt guilty because I am his mom....you know? Livinthedream 2 months ago .

I do understand, but instead of letting him wallow in self pity, you need to get him set back on a course of getting his life together. He needs a plan. Sit down with him and help him get motivated to do something.

Maybe the military looks good now. At the very least, he needs to try to find a job. And he needs to accommodate you in every way possible.

He needs to clean, to cook, to take out the trash, to let you watch your favorite shows, whatever you want. It's your life: you deserve to live it.

He is working but only part time...he is also cutting my grass, taking out garbage, doing his own laundry, however, he sits at home at night because he has no friends (burned too many bridges) and expects to go to dinner with my boyfriend and me or thinks I should cook him dinner..... livinthedream 2 months ago .

No, there are no days like that. You need to lay down the law. If he wants to eat, he cooks.

He pays his own way. Your time with your boyfriend is your own. He's got a time limit on how long he can stay.

Give him the military option: he's not too old to join. Don't let him guilt you into anything, he's made his own mess, he needs to clean it up.

My dad always told me that the front door was not a revolving one. Needless to say, I never went back home. Seems like once an adult child returns home it is hard to get them to leave.

When you take anyone in your home, it seriously impacts your life. Can you just impose a time limit on him?

Well to make a long story short, he got into financial ruins with a girlfriend and I was the only one who would take him in so he could get back on his feet. My ex-husband (his father) wouldn't take him in because their relationship was not good at the time. He just got his old job back, but only part time....... livinthedream 2 months ago .

Have him look for a second job. It will allow you more time alone.

I did that, but he quit that job. Livinthedream 2 months ago .

You will just have to impose a time limit otherwise, he may never leave. I know you love him, but I understand that your privacy is important as well.

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Moved back home with who's permission? .

I'm his mom. My ex wouldn't let him live with him and that's his father! Livinthedream 2 months ago .

Tell him you love him and to get a job and move out. Give him two weeks.

My 25 and 27 year old sons are home again. I was lonely so it is ok...but there is noise all night. Help his self esteem only...and help him to think positive.

Are you dating? Then see the person elsewhere. It will not be forever.

Pray for your son. Think positive.

Sorry for that. I am really the only one in his life who appears to care. S father won't let him live with him so I took him in.

And, yes, I am dating and he has his own home, but when I stay the night with my boyfriend my son calls and wants to know when I am coming home! Livinthedream 2 months ago .

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HIS GRANDMOTHER HAS CUSTODY OF HIM.

My adult son has recently become a vegan - need some help please!

My 20 year old son refuses to get a job and has moved his girlfriend into the basement where his bedroom is. Help me.

I need help from someone willing to donate airmiles to get my son home for a long weekend. He has been gone 1 year.

I moved in with my son and wife for no reason thay thur us out,will not give us are belongings ,how can we get them back.

I'm a single mom and recently moved home and pay rent to my parents. Do they need to claim this on their taxes?

My son recently moved out of the house taking his dog with him. Our Yorkie misses her. Should we get a second Yorkie now.

HOW DO I GET BACK GUARDIANSHIP OF MY 3 YEAR OLD SON...IM 23 AND IN SCHOOL. HIS GRANDMOTHER HAS CUSTODY OF HIM.

I did that, but he quit that job. Livinthedream 46 months ago.

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