My gay male friend is dating a bisexual guy?

I'll tell you and everyone else how I feel as a bisexual man. Yes, that also means having to address biphobic people like you-(Green Goblin), Matt, Andrew, or anyone else who loves to bash all bisexual people. I'm going to be honest & blunt.

How I sexually feel about both sexes is only for me to know and feel. I have full knowledge as to how I sexually and emotionally feel towards both sexes. It's not a phase and I am not confused.

I'm certainly not trying to be greedy and I am not a wh*re either. No, I am not trying to seek anyone's attention. I'm bisexual because I am sexually attracted to men & women....simple as that.

Every bisexual man & woman out there has their own preferences to who they're more attracted to and what they seek in their potential partners. Some are attracted to women more than men. Some don't really care who they get involved with since they're equally attracted to both genders.

Some, like myself, are attracted to men more than women. I'm very aware that bisexual people like myself face biphobia from not only biphobic heterosexual people, but also from biphobic homosexual people too within the LGBTQ community. Bisexuality is a *valid* sexual orientation and there are different degrees to bisexuality.

If anyone disagrees with that, then those specific people need to provide *credible* evidence that could prove me wrong. Otherwise, those people need to shut their mouths and not judge or make speculations on things or issues they know nothing about. As far as I know, nobody has been able to disprove bisexuality and I am very certain that no person will be able to do that in the future.

It is what it is...not everyone's sexual orientation is *black & white*. There are always gray areas when it comes to human sexuality. It's bad enough where we have ignorant biphobic & homophobic straight people running their mouths about what they dislike about our sexual orientation and how we live our lives with another person of our choosing.

But I find it very shocking, hypocritical, offensive, disappointing, and upsetting that bisexual people like myself have to deal with the same arrogance and ignorance coming from biphobic gay/lesbian people who hold a deep hatred or distrust towards us based on their bad experiences with bisexual people in the past or what the media has to say about us. There are negative views towards gay men stating that gay men can't stay faithful or that they're *promiscuous*. Am I suppose to believe that all gay men are wh*res?

It wouldn't be right for me to generalize all gay men now wouldn't it? Yeah, I had known plenty of gay men in the past who would sleep around with any guy without being committed in a relationship. I also know plenty of gay men who aren't that way, and could maintain a healthy, monogamous, happy relationship.

That same logic can be said towards bisexual men & women too. There is absolutely no excuse to judge all bisexual people in a negative way. You biphobes haven't met all bisexual people in this world.

Before biphobic people choose to state their opinion on bisexuality, the least they can do is study and look up what *bisexuality* is as a seperate sexual orientation before coming to a complete conclusion on people like myself. At the end of the day, I am what I am....and I will not allow anyone to tell me that I have to choose which side I need to be on between heterosexuals & homosexuals. This is my body, therefore my body is my business.

If some of you don't like that, well, you better get use to it. Matt-(you're not attractive by the way), Green Goblin, and everyone else who favors acting prejudice towards bisexuals....just know that I as a bisexual man would never date someone like you either. I'm certain most bisexual people wouldn't want to have anything to do with trashy people like you either.

You being gay has nothing to do with it. It's simply because you're displaying your horrible attitudes and negative views towards people like me.

I'm engaged to one, so yes, I would. "because most of them will cheat with a woman or will leave you for a woman" Insecure much? Being bisexual does not equal being promiscuous or unable to have a stable relationship.

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