My husband is verbally abusive.. help?!?

Honey, I really am sorry you are going thru all this hurt all by yourself with no one to even go to to be able to "let your hair down" to be able to talk to. He IS one sick person, that's for SURE. He is a manipulative type person who for some reason has a knack of turning things around making him the good guy, you the not so good person.

He also is going behind your back taking to that counselor to make sure she saw things HIS WAY to make him look good in her eyes. He had some serious issues & has so much anger inside of him. Then he transposes it on to you & takes it all out on you.

I'll be honest because I too went thru domestic violence which is what you are going thru. I can in all honesty tell you it is NOT going to get any better. I know you don't want to hear that, but I've been to counseling & gotten Restraining Orders taken out as mine came to that.

It is just going to get worse as time goes by & as that anger inside of him gets worse with time he's just going to "attack" you more & more. I would NOT put up with the unacceptable. There is NO reason why you should have to put up with his anger problems.

He has to get to the very root of them, work on them & see if he even is able to overcome them. My heart does go out to you for what you're taking from him for NO reason. He is a sick mentally sick person.

He also is a devious person. You are NOT going to win with him, not at any time in the future anyway. Not until he gets himself straightened out & he has a LOT to get straightened out.

You have only been married 2 wks. & already are living the life of pure hell. This is not fair to you in any way, you do not deserve it.

It is NOT you. He KNOWS what he's doing to do. He's well aware of how he's treating you.

This is why I say he's a sick person. In all honesty, I would have a serious talk with him. Tell him you are NOT going to put up with the way he treats you, the way he talks to you.

There is NO reason for it. Tell him if he does NOT stop it & keep it stopped, then you want to separate from him. You do NOT want to live with someone who is disrespectful against you as he is.

Keep in mind above all else, this man is a sick cunning, lying person. He is doing you no good, & if he keeps it up, he's going to make you seriously ill. NO one is worth that, not at your age.

Honey, have a serious talk tell him if he doesn't stop it NOW, you want a separation from him. Say what you mean, mean what you say & stick to it. Don't dare go back on your work to him, do NOT let him talk you out of it as he is a con artist too.

He has so MANY different problems that are wrong with HIM. Talk to him SOON, get it straightened out, & IF he doesn't stop now, please please for your sake leave him as it's only going to get worse. I know you can't take it when it gets worse, you shouldn't have to.

Please at least save yourself from him, you have to do it...DO IT, I know you CAN if you just make up your mind to it. This is your life you're talking about, save your live, honey...the very best to you...:).

What is your problem I wouldn't have married him nd even now I would seek a divorce. Because if he is talking to you like this now how is he going to act later on in years to come. Yes I would go tomorrow and get s divorce and wouldn't look back.

No one deserves to be treated like that. First thing in the morning go and get you a divorce no matter what he says because if he is doing all of that now he will continue to do it. He sounds like he has a very serious problem and needs to be seeing the counselor.

Because he is doing all the dirt and blaming you. Yes you need a divorce right now and please don't have any babies for him then you will be in more trouble. Get a divorce as soon as possible and go to your parent's.

And don't listen to him saying that he is sorry, go as soon as you can.

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