My mum just told me she was sexually abused by her father (my grandfather),what do I do?

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You tell her you are sorry that happened to her. She needs emotional support, acceptance, patience, and help on relating to the trauma. Suggest getting some counseling.

And do not leave your kids alone with your grandfather. Getting over childhood abuse is a process--and it takes time. It can be overcome or managed, but there will always be triggers.

Just love her through this....

Nothing. Your mom is an adult, and can decide what she wants to do about it. All you can do is be there for her.

Nothing...just understand how it may have shaped/affected her life. If it took her this long to tell anyone then she maybe starting to heal. Just be there to listen.

Just listen and have empathy for her. Perhaps she has told you this so you can understand the relationship she has choosen to have with these people. If you are having problems with these feelings go to a therapist and talk about your feelings around this.

You cannot take care of her feelings nor is it your job to try to do anything to make her feel better. Be there for her, love her, listen to her and let her know you heard her and care; that's all.

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Can I sue a therapist if she is telling my daughter that I sexually abused her for a long while -there was none.

I don't know or remeber if I was sexually abused as a child.

Got to go to funeral ,my brother who sexually abused me will be there.

Can you remember being sexually abused in the womb, when you were six months old, like Roseanne Barr...

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.