I agree with you I don't want 72 virgins , I just want my wife.
Yes,you will be with your husband. Yes,he will be granted Hoors and Hoor al ayn is a Hoor with very big and beautiful eyes.Do not worry,in Jannah you will be the queen of all the Hoors of your husband and also the most beautiful among them.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.