Ramadan: where is that Imam Mehdi fellow nowadays?

Unless you're doing it right in front of them.. ..they are likely not even thinking about it (or wanting to). (On a separate but relevant note - it's actually one problem, that parents who culturally arrange their children's marriages don't take into consideration that the children are humans too & have desires.. so marriage should not be delayed to the point that the children resort to masturbation (sin) or worse, etc). "let my body cool down first" ^ Your body "cools down" on its own, naturally, through wet dreams.

Forcing your own body (masturbating) is only harming you, long run.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.