Was I too harsh in telling a complete stranger her boyfriend cheated on her on the same flight I was in?

Any guy who cheats with a complete stranger, giving off a "free show" isn't to worried about getting caught. Some gals love guys like this. As you were a total stranger to Her, may be she didn't even believe you - and believed whatever lame story the guy made up.

Any how, you can have a clear conscience. I guess we can hope the woman eager to meet him a baggage claim was his sister lol.

I think you did the rights thing. What she does with that information is completely up to her. You weren't telling her what to do.

You were simply giving her all the information she needs. It serves no purpose to hide such information. I would have been tempted to just move on but I think she is going to make an informed decision.

If she stays with the jerk, then so be it. I think you did her a public service. Just be sure that he was cheating and then the truth will set you free.

You did not have a duty to her since you don't know her, but you certainly did the right thing.

No, I don't think it was wrong of you, but you need to really be careful because you never know what neither person's temperament is. Of course, that really is their problem, but I don't think you did wrong by doing this. Pinky8.

I'll guess someone someone cheated on you while on a business or other trip. Harsh isn't the word I'd use. If you asked him, he'd likely say nosy.

She might, too. I might. Let's be honest--you were a complete stranger.

She had no reason to believe you. IF YOU WERE WRONG, and I'm not saying you were, you may have just ruined a relationship. And everyone's parameters for a relationship aren't the same.

You also have no idea of the nature of his relationship with the woman who welcomed him. Nobody said they were exclusive--you said she was a stranger, so anything you know about her you had to have seen, heard, touched or smelled directly from her, or it was hearsay. Likewise, anything you tell her is entirely hearsay and means nothing.

Here's how "hearsay" is defined: "unverified, unofficial information gained or acquired from another and not part of one's direct knowledge" He can deny it--you're a complete stranger. So IF they were not exclusive, even if they were married, you made a big deal out of what's possibly a common thing to them. You just didn't have enough information.

All you saw was a guy on a plane, and you saw the same guy being welcomed by a woman when you landed. The rest is hearsay--assumptions. I appreciate your desire to be morally correct, but the matter really had nothing to do with you.

Don't forget to vote helpful answers up inf you think they answer your question! PS: Glad you enjoyed the show--we were three seats in front of you, not two.

If I knew my best friend was being cheated on, or someone I was close to was being cheated on, I do think I'd tell them. I couldn't just sit there and let them think everything was fine with their boyfriend/girlfriend, knowing what I knew. If it was someone I didn't know at all, though, I think being cheated on is embarrassing enough without having to hear about it from some complete stranger.

I don't know, it's a tough place to be. I think if my boyfriend was cheating on me, I'd be very glad if my friends told me - I'd expect them to. But if some random girl in my year who I'd spoken to about once told me, it'd just add insult to injury.

It's easy to get involved.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.

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