Hmmmm...I think that's a misconception right there. Physical attraction is the first step. I am by no means saying that women should go out and change themselves to please someone else, I just saying that physical beauty does count.
Why do we look at other people...we don't know what they are thinking or how they think, we are initially drawn to people based on physical attraction. As we know, what is attractive differs from person to person. What's attractive to you may not be attractive to me.It is not until you begin to build the relationship that other factors come into it.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.