That you say you are INTERESTED in the Excellence hotel/resort implies you have not made a commitment. What you and your fiance have to decide is what type of vacation you want. The Excellence is an enclosed in a compound in a town of 45,000.
45,000 does not support a night life. I lived in San Pedro de Macoris in the DR, which is 4 times at large and there was no nightlife there aside from a disco Friday nights. My personal opinion, and I've been to an all inclusive (Venezuela), is that to go to a foreign country and not experience that foreign country, why go?
Plenty of great places in the US that have what you want. Not a whole lot of point of going to a country that you are afraid to walk the streets. Being in the in the all inclusive didn't stop me from going anywhere but then I live America, what could be more dangerous.:).
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