What should I do if my girlfriends sexual past bothers me?

It is not weird at all. I was inexperienced and have never been with any guys but my boyfriend ( who is now my husband) had been with other girls and it made me feel insecure and self conscious and awkward, but I asked him about it and he was very open and willing to ease my thoughts and talk about it. Now I feel better and we have a great, open and honest relationship.

It is not weird that you want to know. IN fact it is good. You should know if she has STD's or anything like that, if you were to end up having sex with her.

If she doesn't feel comfortable talking about it, kind of ease into it. Make it kind of a game. ( my husband and I would do this) Ask her a question then have her ask you one and go back and forth, its kind of a bonding thing too, it's nice.

Hope this helps.

I wouldn't want to discuss prior relationships with my husband or boyfriend. What gain are seeking from knowing her prior intimate relationships. Are you uncomfortable that perhaps because she is more experienced than you that she has had better lovers?

If she said yes that would make you feel awful I would suspect. She is with you now and you should focus on that. Do you want to hear about other men because hearing about men turns you on?

You should question your motivation to ask her these personal questions. If she wants to discuss personal things let her bring them up. If she never brings it up it is probably because it is her past and she is not with those other men for a reason.

She is with you for a reason so you must be doing something right ;o).

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