Which describes you place in your relationship? Breadwinner or homemaker? Are you comfortable with either?

I am a homemaker but make the “extra” money for fun stuff and vacations. My husband does make the most money and supports the family but he has often told me that if I wanted to take over he is ok with that. I agree that each person usually contributes in their own way.

Someone needs to run the household and it is usually one that lives in the household unless they hire someone. So the homemaker’s job is worth money even though it doesn’t change hands. So if you are not the breadwinner, just pitch in around the house, make that run smoother and you will feel like you are pulling your weight.

Your to sensitive. You are a couple working together for the benefit of all in the family. I am the breadwinner at my house but my wife also contributes a significant amount of income and works hard for it.

We both do housework because we both live in the house. She hates laundry and I can't understand why. The machines do all the work so I do it.

I won't dust and she is a fanatic about it. You literally have to move everything in the house to do it. I think thats more work than laundry.

But in the end it all gets done so lighten up as she is doing it for the both of you and the kids. A mooch is someone who lays on the couch when the other leaves for work and is there when they return.

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