Why are girls stupid when they get dumped and their boyfriend had already cheated on them before but they want him?

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It does look stupid at times, I know. But what it really comes down to is lack of self-esteem. When a girl, or even an adult woman, lets a boyfriend or husband treat her badly or without respect, and doesn't seem to care at all that he's deceived, disgraced or even physically or otherwise harmed her, you can be sure that female person has not learned to love and care for herself enough to even be responsibly involved in a relationship at all.

Usually, all you can do is point out to her, yourself, that she has ignored the mistreatment you've seen for yourself, as long as you're sure she knows about it too, as in someone "cheating" on her. You can even share your opinion with her: namely, that she's been treated disrespectfully, and that you see her willing to accept it and therefore probably not thinking very highly of herself. You must be nice about it though, and make sure you let her know you believe she deserves to be treated with respect -- that all people do, but that she, in particular, deserves respect just as she is at this point in time, and that you respect her as a person, even if she doesn't respect herself right now.

However, you can't keep her from making the mistake of still wanting to be with this person, and having grief over his rejection of her, or even going back to him, however much of a jerk he may be. Only she can do that. In the meantime, offer you friendship and willingness to be there for her if she needs your support or someone to talk to, and mean it.

You can even start a conversation with her about self-esteem, hopefully offering examples in your own life in which you've learned to aquire it. If you're not her friend, and only want to critisize her for not getting over a guy who cheated on her, resist the temptation to put her down or even get involved. If you don't care for her either, then it's none of your business.

I have a feeling she's your friend, though, so try being there for her, and helping her get her mind off this guy and maybe doing some things that will encourage her to enjoy and appreciate herself and the friendship the two of you share. People mature and find selfconfidence and self-esteem at different levels and according to their own abilities. Respect this and learn how good it can feel to help someone out when you can, though knowing you can only do so much.

Good luck. It's nice of you to care, and if you do, try to lose the word "stupid," which isn't going to help anyone.

2 things because maybe they just so happened to get attatched to that guy and put their trust into him! Geez! Orrr they could just maybe find their hotness irresistable.

Hmmmm let's think about that.

Because it takes a little time to get over someone when you care about them very much. When it first happens, you hope to repair the relationship and get back with him. Then, when you realize that isn't going to happen, the pain sets in, especially if you've been dumped for someone else.

Eventually, your brain kicks in and you begin to see that perhaps he isn't the guy for you. That's where friends and family come in to help her get over the breakup. It sounds like you've never been in that situation so you are a little insensitive to the girl's pain.

It might help if you could have a little sympathy for the girl until she realizes she's probably better off without the guy.

3 Oh, I get it. You still want your boyfriend even though he cheated on you. Yeah, a lot of girls have this problem.

It's a self-esteem problem. You don't think you're good enough to have a good boyfriend who loves you, who'll take care of you, so you'll settle for a guy who cheats on you and treats you like dirt. Some women go through their entire lives making this same mistake over and over again.

You've got to move on, stop thinking about negative things, and try to do fun things. Exercising will help too. Go for a walk or start jogging.

You're still young. You can find a nice guy. Maybe look around and see if there's a guy who's a little shy, maybe a little awkward around girls.

Go talk to him and be his friend. You could change his entire life, and at the same time, improve your own life.

Oh, I get it. You still want your boyfriend even though he cheated on you. Yeah, a lot of girls have this problem.

It's a self-esteem problem. You don't think you're good enough to have a good boyfriend who loves you, who'll take care of you, so you'll settle for a guy who cheats on you and treats you like dirt. Some women go through their entire lives making this same mistake over and over again.

You've got to move on, stop thinking about negative things, and try to do fun things. Exercising will help too. Go for a walk or start jogging.

You're still young. You can find a nice guy. Maybe look around and see if there's a guy who's a little shy, maybe a little awkward around girls.

Go talk to him and be his friend. You could change his entire life, and at the same time, improve your own life.

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