She is just lazy. You must give her money. I would cut that right off.
My wife don't work at a job. But she works at home, Its clean and does everything. You should have a talk with her and say if you don't want to work, then the house should be clean.
If she cant, say then get a real job then. Im not working so you can stay home and sit around doing nothing.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.