Why does my eldest daughter dislike her younger sisters?

None of this is your problem. She and her fiance are adults, they need to figure it out. I'm also not sure how the fact that your eldest daughter is getting married in October is relevant.

She gets a wedding DAY. Not week, not month, not year.

I actually think it's wise of your daughter, if she and her fiancé want to be married, to have a spring or early summer wedding. I also feel the idea of inviting everyone to an engagement wedding, but then having the wedding there is kind of awesome, and will cut down on the stress and arrangements. It will be memorable, yet not steal her sister's thunder, because her sister's wedding is a totally different situation.

If you can help pay for booking the places or whatever, even with the understanding that your daughter will pay you back when she can, I think you should go ahead and book now, tell her fiancé not to worry, and they can be married when their baby is born. I understand in this economy lots of things are in the air, so nothing's a guarantee. I do not think that should stop a marriage from happening.

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