Chances are the binding is being updated, but because you're doing "lots of stuff" on the UI thread, the application isn't getting a chance to update the screen. You should consider moving the processing to a background thread or using Dispatcher.BeginInvoke() so that the UI is free to update and display your wait message.
I did get Rory's solution working, with a bit of tweaking. I ended up doing this.
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