You are worried about your girlfriend and her exboyfriend who were both in a long term relationship with each other?
Answer I was also in a long term relationship...and the guys that I dated after the long term one, were and are always concerned about the guy I dated for 4 years. But, here is what I think...if you break up with someone...then, it is over. I guess it will always be in their memory...but, if they have agreed to go out with you, then I am sure you are the only one they are thinking of.
Obviously, they broke up for a reason...but, I wouldn't try reading into it all the time, you will just get hurt if you think that there is still something going on Just try and create new memories and try and be part of their present and future...no need to always dwell on the past:D Answer Well, its nice that you are concerned but worried. What do they think about this. Are they having problems that are ongoing.Do they need help as far as talking to someone to work through their issues.
I would say give them advice once and back out. Your concerns are valid but should not consume you, its there business.
They had a very on-off relationship for four years and brought out the worst in each other, so I can't figure it out. I’ve tried to inform her many times that in order for a new relationship to work, we need to try to eliminate the things that'll make us insecure, meaning all of the past and would-be romances of her life. She says I’m more than welcome to talk and hang out with my exes, but it's clear that she's saying this so she can have a guilt-free permission slip to do the same.
We're so close in many ways, but I just don't know if I can fight for a relationship when the other person doesn't take it as serious as I do. First of all, you’ve only been together for seven months. That may feel like a long time, but really, you’re just getting to know one another.
I don’t recommend that any couple make any kind of commitment until they’ve been together for at least a year. So, for you to be wondering if she has the same level of commitment as you do is kind of premature.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.
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