Your friend tells you her husband insists on her getting breast implants. She is not sure about the procedure and wants your advice. What?

To alter any portion of your body for cosmetic purposes is a personal choice. Not one that should be made by someone else. For a spouse to insist that you have a surgical procedure to become, what they would see as more attractive, is insensitive and wrong.

If breast size was such an issue for him, he should have considered that before asking to have you spend the rest of his life with him. By asking her to surgically alter her appearance for his pleasure, his is showing his lack of regard for not only her mental and emotional well being, but her physical health as well. This is not a loving husband, this is a selfish man.As for advice, I would tell her that she needs to weigh her health and happiness, against his.

In the long run, if he isn't happy with part of her now, what will happen 1, 5, 10 years from now? We all know that we will inevitably age, will he require face lifts when she starts to show crows feet (wrinkles)? If they don't have children yet, consider how he will treat their shortcomings?

Bottom line, unless she is unhappy with herself, and wants to make that change, then she should be proud of the woman she is, and be proud to be natural. She should stand up and put her foot down. If he doesn't life it, >>>point to the direction of the nearest exit.

Quite frankly, any man who disregards his wife's concerns and insists on plastic surgery for her anyway is, at the least ,guilty of mental abuse. He's also a complete a$$. I would sit down with my friend and lead her to see for herself the risks of plastic surgery.

I would ask her if she would still love her husband if he were in a horrible disfiguring accident. If she would still like him or be attracted to him. Assuming she would ( as would any of my friends), I'd ask her why she would have to change part of herself to make him happy at the risk of her own health or happiness.

Finally, I'd make sure she knew what emotional/mental abuse is and encourage her strongly NOT to have the surgery. Especially given that I am not against plastic surgery. I am against one person forcing their wishes about plastic surgery on another.

Awesome question!

She would have to decide for herself first, and then discuss with husband. If she is okay with it, go ahead, if not, no deal.

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