Chopchopchopchopchopchopchopchopchopchop... It's the sound of a helicopter parent swooping in. Your son is 28. Tell me, are you going to have sex with this woman for your son as well?
He needs to talk to her, he needs to express interest, he needs to invite the woman to go out with him. Him, not you. If he has trouble making an approach, then he needs to practice exactly that, without your input or even knowledge.
I can't picture a single way that your presence is going to help your son with this woman.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.