Aside from the obvious such as addiction problem, domestic violence, or affair, what are the signs that the relationship doesn't work out?

When a relationship "works," the differences of each individual compliment each other. That, in my mind, is a key metric for determining the functionality of a relationship. Once the differences of the individuals no longer complement each other, once they become a source for friction, disdain or disgust, the relationship is likely no longer functioning in a healthy fashion.

This is usually a leading indicator that problems are brewing. They often begin small and slowly progress, especially if they are not detected early. So, take a moment every now and then; analyze the big and the small elements of compatibility and interaction with your mate.

If you detect that things that you once enjoyed about your mate now annoy you, probe deeper, it may be the difference between saving your relationship or seeing it disintegrate before your eyes later down the road.

Signs that a relationship may be on shaky grounds could be anything from constant arguments over the smallest things to finding little to nothing in common with the other partner. You both may have been blinded by love during the initial dating phase, but after things settle down a bit and you set out to plan a life together, you may get to know each other more and more – and may not like everything you come to learn about your partner. Many couples, who were initially deeply in love, found out later that they shared entirely different viewpoints on issues of importance.

For instance, one deal breaker for most couples would be the lack of desire of one partner to have children. The relationship itself could be going wonderfully and the couple may be on cloud nine, but one of the partners may not feel as strongly about the issue of having children as the other does. One partner may not ever want to have children, which could then almost force the other to reconsider his/her options.

A relationship could easily break up over such controversies.

I think signs of a relationship not working out could consist of many issues. Constantly disagreeing, not wanting to spend quality time with one each other, sex no longer exsist, not coming home at night, not wanting to participate in family outings, hiding important information, not caring about each others feelings, insecurities from either. I do not think it is hard to tell if a relationship is going to work or not.

I think the biggest problem for me would be getting him to actually move on!

Sometimes boredom maybe. I think that if you plan on being with somebody the rest of your life, make sure they keep you happy and are a positive person. If there's any negativity inside one person, the other will feel it, and the air will become tense, where every little thing becomes a big deal.

The major parts in a marriage/relationship is to be, and be with someone who is understanding, logical, and accepting, and if one is not then the other will, I think, become tired. Tired of having to try to explain simple soulutions to a problem, and the other just has a one way mind and doesn't take time to understand the other's viewpoint. When things get tough, there has to be somoneone who stays strong and positive, and the other supportive and understanding, or both.

A few signs that the relationship doesn't work is when there is a lack of communication. When one cannot express how they feel, there will be big problems. Likewise when someone does express their feelings, but the other person doesn't care, or try to fix whatever the problem is, that person simply does not care enough about the relationship.

Also, when one person does things without considering the other person's feelings, knowing that it might hurt them, there is a problem. In the end, you have to know yourself. If you're constantly questioning the relationship then maybe it's not meant to be.It's best that things end as early as possible, then for it to be later, and have regret that you spent so much time on this one person, when you could've been searching for the right one the whole time.

You just don't have that vibe anymore between you. You really don't care if you spend time with eachother. You are attracted to someone else.

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