It's 4 yrs difference. It's rare for people to save stuff that long. Your first baby's carseat has probably even hit it's expiration date (I don't get it either but they have them).
Go for it. Have one. In my opinion, unless the babies are close and the same gender, it's fine to have a shower for each one.
I have 3. Had 2 showers. 5yrs difference between the girls, 17 mos between youngest girl and son.
Didn't get a 3rd shower. I had the same issue with people showing or not showing. But nobody gave notice, they just didn't show.
Same problem with our wedding. Invited 100 or so people, 30 showed. My second shower 30 were invited, 10 showed.
1st shower 40 were invited 15 showed. Son's dedication ceremony, 20 invited 7 showed.
If its for a totally different baby you should do it. I have 3 girls and I had people throw me a baby shower for each of them. If its for the same baby it might be a little weird to throw a second one 4 years later because a baby shower is for gather baby items not 4T stuff.
Baby showers are fun again if it is a second baby you should defiantly do it. Hope this helps have a great day.
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