California divorce; can a cheating wife get alimony and half of everything?

You can ask for whatever you want. Whether or not you will get it depends on the judge and the state that you are getting a divorce in. While you are asking for half of your husband's pension, your husband can counter with how much you are making, as well as anything else he wants to present his case in an attempt to reduce or even eliminate your portion.

Even if you was married over ten years, that doesn't entitle you to half of his pension. All the ten year mark does is guarantee that if you are awarded a portion of his pension you can petition DFAS to give you that portion via a direct deposit. If you didn't hit the ten year mark then whatever the judge awards you won't be paid by DFAS directly.

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