Christians: Why does God force rape victims to marry their rapist?

No. I would strangle the b@stard who raped my daughter with my bare hands. This whole situation you speak of reeks.

First, Hell, there is soo much wrong here I don't know what to discuss first. No father I've ever known in my life, Christian or non-Christian, would blame his daughter for being a rape VICTIM. This father is damn near as wrong as the rapist.

And who are these "Christians" to tell you that God no longer loves you? I'd really like to see their scripture reference for saying that; because I'll give you a scripture reference for what Jesus says about those who offend children: Matthew 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. Mark 9:42 And whosoever shall offend one of these little ones that believe in me, it is better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he were cast into the sea.

Luke 17:2 It were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones. And I'n not so sure but what your father DOESN'T belong in the same group. Just how the Hell does he justify yelling at his daughter for being raped?

All this does to the child is compound the horror of the rape. There is absolutely NOTHING a child can do to "entice" someone to rape them; including running around naked; and occasionally for various reasons children do just exactly that. Loving parents laugh and cover them up.

It is a very special type of man who is even sexually aroused by the sight of naked children. We do not call them parents or uncles. They are known to the world as pedophiles, and they are sick in the head.

If there is ANYTHING I can do for you, I would LIKE to convince you that YOU are an innocent victim, and there is NOTHING you can do to make GOD stop loving you: Rom 8:38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come Rom 8:39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. My opinion is that YOU NEED loving and Christian counseling far beyond what strangers can do for you here, however well-meaning we might be. You are not seeing reality, and, considering the horrors you've been through, I'd say small wonder.

I too, was raped as a child, homosexually by a family member, and 40 years later I can describe exactly what happened in graphic detail; but I'm not going to do that in a public internet forum. You need to know that God still loves you and you need counselling. My email is open if you wish to discuss anything.

Merry Christmas to you and God Bless. The Voice.

Actually, yes. Theoretically, we're supposed to forgive them even if they don't repent. As for the "yelling at your daughter" part, I'm not sure where you're coming from.

What did she do wrong? What point are you trying to make here? As for the forgiveness part, although we're supposed to forgive, I know nobody strong enough to actually do it as you describe.

Also, if a Christian tells you that God doesn't love you, don't believe him. Really, don't.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.