I think you both working at the same place is making things worse. It sounds like you could use some time apart. Stay with one of your friends for a few days and see what happens.
Maybe he will miss you and change. A more subtile approach would be trying to make plans both of you can agree on. Rent a movie and watch it together, or go out to dinner.
If he doesn't want to get off the computer at that point I'd just walk up to him with a suitcase and say Im going to stay with my friend for a few days. Judging by his reaction you should see how much he cares about the relationship.
My husband is the same...A video game (xbox360) addict! Its really annoying. I always threaten to divorce him if he dosn't want to spend any time with me...I mean, he could literally be on there from the time he wakes up until the time he goes to bed.
I feel like I have to beg him to spend time with me sometimes. He will act okay for a day or two after I flip out on him and then slowly go back to how he was. It a horrible cycle... He says "find something for us to do then" ...but he also dosn't like going out so that leaves me limited.
Unfortunately, things probablly won't change...I would say...if you feel like you would be better off alone or better of with someone else who could treat you better, then leave him now while you can... You don't have any kids I assume, so it won't be as hard...I have a baby and one on the way, so thats why I'm trying to stick it out. Just do whatever you think will make you happy, thats all you can do...you only live once... Good Luck either way girl, best wishes.
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