You could discuss your Kavorka with a counselor, but until that point, you can "self medicate. " First, what is a "loser"? Since I don't know your definition, here's what I've got: a broke guy with no plans for life who wants to veg and party his way to retirement, at which point he'll discover he has no money.
Here are ways to avoid this guy:Don't be like him. I'm not saying you are like him now, but maximize your differences: live your life the way you think an adult would, like plan for the future, reads literature, organize your apartment, and whatever else you think fits. Basically, do all the things you respect in other people, and that may scare away the loser.
Don't give a guy money or buy things things for him, other than occasionally covering his meal. Losers are attracted to money, so the less you give them, the less likely they are to hang out. If you buy a guy a birthday or Christmas gift, don't spend more than you would on your friends or family, and if he doesn't reciprocate, then maybe you shouldn't buy him anything anymore.
Don't give him the impression you are easy. Once again, I'm not saying you are, but make sure it is clear in his head that you are not. Dress appropriately, speak appropriately, and act appropriately to the occasion.
Losers can perceive a girl getting drunk or telling dirty jokes as a sign of easiness, and nothing attracts a loser more.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.