Hiya hun I would worry about that too, I wanted to call Isla, Ellie (It's always been a name I liked - Harry would have been called Ellie had he been a girl)... but because she had stated from the day she found out she was having a girl, that she was calling her Ellie, I didn't do it. I kind of regret that now....although I do love the name Isla. I would just do it if I were you, because you will regret if you don't.
If she asks, just explain that it's a coincidence, and tell her she has great taste in names :D How you getting on? I'm getting pretty broody now! Xxx.
You should send her a message saying "Oh I see you have another daughter Ava, congratulations, what a lovely name its been at the top of our name list for a while now, and we almost named Aimee Ava" then she'll just think its a coincidence if it seems like you have liked that name for a while..i'm sure you have :) xx.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.