What are some ways to release stress and pent up resentment toward my husband's sister?

Well the way you tell it, his sister is God to him and you're just a mortal. Now, I'm not hearing his side but it seems before marriage you saw these red flags but you still went on to marry him. Yes, that's really sad and sheety you didn't get to dance on your big day.

You've let this go on for years, so its going to be really hard to change with a man like him. It seems you love him enough despite this. The fact he joined the army so you both could be together shows he loves you too.

You have a right to be upset and need a way to release the grief. I wish you both could go to a good couples therapist, sometimes a third person pro can make people understand each other better. Eventually you're going to have to let go of the past, what's done is done.

Try to focus on what you have, him as a husband and to lay next to each night. Yes some things might come up time to time where you don't feel you have his support but is life ever perfect and fair for all all the time? But counseling for both might help if you two can't talk about this in a way that works and heals things.

No, I don't think it's wrong to resent him for those things, however I think it was incredibly foolish to marry this person after being treated in such a way from day one. Did you think just because you got married that this kind of thing would magically stop happening? I feel sympathy for you, yet at the same time I don't want to because you were foolish enough to marry this guy.

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