I have so much anger and resentment with my husband I don't know why.?

I'm sorry to say it but YOU need to adjust your perspective and YOUR attitude. What is more important to you - money, jobs, THINGS or your husband and life together? He's miserable too so why is it ok for YOU to be resentful but not him?

You two made this decision together so the fall out of it is BOTH of your responsibility. The BLAME does not fall on him just because you have a bad attitude. Sounds like you two need to make another BIG CHANGE.

If there is no jobs, lousy pay and your are living with inlaws a CHANGE certainly sounds in order and what do you have to lose? FOCUS on what is good and make eachother the priority in your lives - become united in something or you will wreck the marriage altogether.

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