Use lubes and do lots of foreplay. Ask her to lie above you and take as much she can take in. But bro you gotta convince her more to take you in.
Be strong sometimes when she is about to orgasm as then she will offer less resistance. Try entering her more then, may be it will hurt some times but make her love that pain. Talk hot and dirt to her during sex and take her attention away from the pain man.
Lots of foreplay. She needs to let go of her fear, because that can hold her back and not make her as...'ready' down there. Use lube too, and just take it slow, little by little.
Let her tell you if she can handle any more.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.