How do I have sex with my girlfriend without hurting her?

When I had sex the first time the guy was a lot more experienced and he fingered me for ages use lube or Vaseline not vaseline if you are using condoms ...he got me so aroused by kissing me cuddling me at at the same time he used his fingers and got me so wet and turned on ....he had broke me in and then used his ........ and it didn't hurt that bad to be honest just be very gentle as for you laying on her .....omg just let nature take its own course you can stand up she can be on top there are so many positions from behind doggy style .... I would say keep it very light hearted and laugh at yourself make it fun Good Luck.

Well just GO WITH THE FLOW! JUST HAVE SEX AND GO TO THE DEPTHS OF THE PLEASURE.. don't be all stupid and stop worrying you know...

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