There is no "good" or "best" way of admitting to an affair. Each person and personality is different therefore each situation would be different. Each person would need to assess and decide upon a way to tell their significant other of their indiscretions.
IF I were on the person who was cheated on, I think I would want to be told in person - not in writing, not made public and it should be admitted by the person before the significant other finds out in another way. If it comes from the person who cheated, I think there would be a better chance of the relationship surviving if they were able to work through the distrust.
Confessing to cheating is usually as self-centered as the act of cheating itself. Confessing only burdens your partner in an attempt to assuage your own guilt. Its a different story if the one who's being cheated on has an idea of the cheating or has tried to call the cheater out on it and has been met with denial, that sort of thing can make you feel like you're going crazy.So a confession in that situation would be correct.
Instead of confessing to their partner, the cheater should just admit their mistake to themselves and vow to never get into a situation like that. Maybe learn to recognize what made them cheat in the first place. Did they feel that this person understood them more than their partner?
Is there a detachement at home? Have things in the relationship gotten boring? And what has been done about these things?
Also what could be done about these things?
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.