Have you ever felt depressed at the ending of a former relationship? How did you overcome the negative feelings?
I am at that point right now and it sucks. I did something wrong and my husband and I separated. I've never lived by myself before.
I was either living with my parents or boyfriend, fiance or husband. Now I am all alone and he is involved with someone else and enjoying every minute of it. Yes, I am jealous, but I have realized it doesn't do any good to be jealous, It just causes more problems.
Even though I thought my depression has been under control, there are some nights that I am so lonely and depressed and I don't know how I will get through to the next day. I haven't gotten over the relationship and I really don't know how I will. I figure that time cures all.
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I don't know about depressed but saddened. Go out and have a good time and it will be easy to get over.
I remember when I split up with a boyfriend in college that I was just crushed. He was a really sweet guy, and I liked him a lot. I thought we had a ton in common, and I was amazed that we got along so well.
We also worked together, and it made going to work fun. We ended up splitting up because he wanted to ask me how committed I felt to the relationship, but he asked in the wrong way. I won't explain because it's really complicated, but he hurt my feelings a lot, and I was shocked to find that he didn't think of our relationship the same way I did (apparently I thought I was making my affections clear, and he did not).
He tried to fix it, when he realized I was hurt, but I just couldn't get over what he had said. I was pretty depressed after that, because I felt like I had lost a really great guy for a stupid reason. It also made work incredibly awkward until he quit a couple of months later.
I think I started to get over it a bit when I realized that I would eventually feel that compatible with someone again. While we had made a lot of sense together, someone else would come along that would make even more sense. I was really able to believe that, and I'm glad I did because it ended up being true.
I think grieving for a lost relationship is normal and healthy, and should be allowed to run its course. It's just important to remember that some things aren't meant to be, and that tomorrow always brings new possibilities.
Have you ever felt so depressed that you wish your life would endSince of late your wife has left you and gone to live with your ex best friendNever thought that this could happen to you and you feel betrayed and let downAnd you feel the saddest of the sad souls of your side of the Town. Taken with her your primary school going son and daughter to a Town one hundred miles awayAnd you feel devastated that in their future that you will not have much sayYou always loved your children and you loved their mother your ex wifeBut she fell in love with your friend and such are the ways of life.In the pub I met him last week he's not the man he used to beHe looks sad faced and dejected, quiet and full of miseryHe used to be so cheerful always in a happy moodHe seems such a different person and in silence he now brood. From the poets and the songwriters of undying love so much we hearBut the man forsaken by love sits alone and drinks his beerTime of course will be his healer he won't always feel this wayHappiness again he will know and he will find new love one day.
Have you ever felt so depressed that suicide you did contemplateLike the poor fellow that I know who lost his wife to his ex mateBut love is not all beauty and like the thorns that guard the roseIt can cause a festering heartache but that's life I do suppose.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.
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