How Do You Deal With The Hurt From An Extramarital Affair?

It is one of our worst nightmares--an affair! Extramarital affairs are commonplace in the media and is fast becoming the norm within our society. I was the victim of such an event, and it cost me a great deal.

I want to share with you that experience and how you can avoid the pain that I had to endure. If you are experiencing hurt due to a spouse's extramarital affair(s), keep in mind that you are not the first to experience such this type of pain. It is gut-wrenching, and it is always present, as if is now a part of your very being.

You can't eat or sleep. The world just isn't the same anymore; it is as if you are now alien to this big blue marble we call earth. Fortunately, you can overcome the hurt that now holds you within its grip, defying any attempt you make to remove it.

First, you have to put it out of your mind. I know it is said than done, but you absolutely must not dwell on it. Besides, will sitting around and thinking about the details of the affair make it go away?

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