I broke up with my boyfriend on impulse a week ago and now I want him back, what should I do?

Some times we focus on what we are used to an not on what we want or what is better for us. I read below that there are reasons for the impulse. Keeping in mind that you are accepting him for who he is and how he is, do you really want him back?

If so, go ahead and go after what you want. It is unfair of you to get upset over the same things that you fought about before, since you are going back to it with prior knowledge. Too often women put themselves in this situation.

If you have a small lingering issue with something now, it will more than likely grow with time and it is not fair to expect him to be anything more than who he is. Perfect example - girl meets party boy heavy drinker/smoker. Does not like it, but he is cute and dates him anyway.

Time passes, arguments form, tension builds, feelings are hurt, and after wasted years the relationship ends because he drank to much and didn't care how you felt about it. A bunch of friends say they saw it coming.

1st thing you need to do is stop acting impulsively. As to the relationship I would suggest you call him and tell him you just discovered that you're human and capable of making mistakes. Explain why you acted impulsively,(this will require you to figure it out before hand) and ask him if he would be interested in trying again.

Don't wait and don't play games. This involves 2 human with the capacity to be hurt. If he rejects your offer, you will have to face the fact that you screwwed up and learn from it.

Perhaps that way if you ever get another chance to be happy, you will think twice before reacting to your impulses.

I think you're immature to try and make adult decisions. I suggest you find yourself and what makes you happy.

If you left him on impulse then you should not seek him back because you are not ready for love. You are unstable, what you need to do is humble up and take your loss.

Nightwork4: I honestly did not break up with him for absolutely no reason. It was on impulse since I was in a bad mood. However, all the frustration that built up inside me didn't just come out of nowhere.To be honest, he and I had been losing touch.

On a particular day I would find myself contacting him and I would be the one initiating the conversation. As time went on, I've realized that I have been making most of the effort in the relationship, while he is just... I don't know, he doesn't seem to care as much. All this is frustrating to me and I felt that he doesn't want to make an effort.

That day I decided to talk about that with him. And the conversation went badly. I went a bit overboard and I blurted out the "break up" words.

I've realized later that I never meant it though, because I still love him very much. If you ask me, I was in the relationship for real, unfortunately since we've been long-distance for a while now, it's difficult to keep it strong. Does it seem like I'm just an impulsive person in the post?

Sorry I should've explained the situation better.

Follow your heart, but use your head. Remember the reason you left him before, and seek some good agreements if you return.

If I was him I would tell you to get lost to be honest. Breaking up with someone for no reason shows your not a person who is into a real relationship . Leave him alone and if he wants you he'll get in touch, if not it's your loss.

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