I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend on 3rd May (6th day of her period). After an hour, she?

If the menstrual cycle is normal and regular, the unsafe period for having sex is normally stated as 9th to 19th day after the beginning date of previous menstrual period. Since you say you had it on the 6th day and if it means after the onset of previous menses, you are reasonably safe. But if the 6th day means 6th day after the last day of last menses, then you are on the border line.

But all these are to do with probabilities. If menstrual cycle is not regular, then one cannot rely totally on these "safe days".

This African proverb has lots of meaning " "Sex is for pleasure. It is God who decides when to give child".

Have her to get a (e.p.t. Kit) if she's not pregnant be very happy... I would advise that you obstain from sex all together until you have full accurate knowledge on the seriousness of the matter.. never play games with youir life.. it's far to valuable.. don't let desires, and being anxious destroy your life.. Start practicing self control, and by now every person on earth knows about stds. Even you..

Remember life is too special to take the kind of chances that can hunt you a life time...

I think she's not pregnant, because she already got her period after took the pill. If she really doesn't get pregnant, please be careful in future, you might not be so lucky for second time. Life is so precious, it is not something that could be easily take and let go.

Peace :).

While I don't know the side effects of the I-pill (whether it can throw off menstrual cycles or not), it is possible that she could be pregnant. Many women have a period or two during early pregnancy (I had one during my current pregnancy, and each of my sisters had two), and contrary to popular belief it is possible to get pregnant during a period, especially if it's near the end of one when the uterine lining is already rebuilding itself. Definitely get an EPT, it should be very clear by now if she is, and in the future the recommended two or more methods of contraception at a time sounds like it would be a good idea for you since you don't sound like you're in too much of a hurry to start parenthood :).

I would say probably not pregnant, since you had sex while she was having her period and then she got another period on May 22nd. The pill she took probably threw things off; it doesn't take much to upset the delicate balance of the menstrual cycle.

In order to prevent pregnancy, you need to be using some sort of contraceptive (not a pill after the fact). Also, consider the first day of the period Day 1. The best chances of getting pregnant are if you have sex from Day 10 to about Day 20, if the cycles are normal and regular.

Get informed and you won't have to wonder about stuff like this.

Ok, my period for many months would start around the 2nd of the month. Then all of a sudden, it jumped backwards, and started to come on the 18th. Today is the 17th, and I have no "pre period" signs, like I normally do.

Even if her cycle has always been perfect, there is a chance that she could be experiencing a delay in her cycle. If her period was already supposed to have happened by now, just get a pregnancy test. There are clinics that you can go to if you are exploring options other than becomming a parent, and if shes not pregnant, just get like a huge box of condoms.

She should probably get on the pill too. Depending where you live, there are clinics she can go to, and get a sever discount, especially if she says she's a student (they don't check, im proof...what are they going to do call the school and ask if you go there...the schools cant gove out that info. ) I think its like 45 dollars for an exam, and 7 bucks per pack of pills.

You don't have to pay right away either, they can give you a bill. Anyway, get a huge box of condoms, and keep them everywhere. Put some in both your cars, rooms, purse, wallet...just so you have them whenever you are going to have sex.

Don't "obstain" until your ready to be a parent. Sex is not just about procreation. Its a part of life...a good part.

Just be careful next time. Us normal people have all had our scares, so if shes not pregnant, don't feel aweful that you were scared, just hold enough of the fear to remind you to be prepared. I hope everything turns out ok for the both of you.

Oh, and have her do the test with you outside the bathroom...im not saying she is one of those girls, but she could be scareing you for 2 reasons A) she wants to scare you because shes afraid to have sex again because you werent using protection (the both of you) and it scared her...or B) some girls just pretend they could be pregnant for a varitey of resons. She could maybe want to see your reaction, or if youd stay, what you would say...or maybe she could be scareing you to get a rise out of you (not intentionally to be mean or hurt you, but to get a little extra attention) So cover your butt! Be safe!

Thanks everyone for your support. The reply of Mrs. wychik has really tensed me a lot. I find myself helpless now.

She is not ready to go to a doctor. What should I do now? What are the methods of abortion?

What are its complications and the related legal issues.

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