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Sounds like you have social anxiety. My sister is the same way. She turned down guys (even ones whom appealed to her) because the responsibility of stepping out the house and doing all these coupley things with them was too much for her to handle and she doesn't like being in public much at all.
Normally there are underlying reasons to being this way. I think normally from being bullied to the point you're just afraid of people in general. If you're confident you can get a gf than I assume you don't really have low self esteem?
Ask yourself what's keeping you from going out and socializing. Are you afraid of how they perceive you or what they'll say to you? Are you worried if you'll say something dumb that you'll regret and come off looking like a fool?
Even if you downright just hate socializing there should still be a reason behind it..maybe it takes too much energy from you and requires you do things you don't like (like pretending to be someone you're not and having to try and say the right thing and keep a convo going blah blah). You should look up social anxiety because it sounds like you may have it. The only way I can think of to be more social if you really want to be and aren't content with your life the way it is now..is just going for it..do things you've never done before and push yourself to it..find some motivation to want to socialize.
If it's still a lot of trouble you can seek a therapist to help you through it.
Ive never seen someone fit the description of 'loner' more than you (not in a bad way) hey if you don't want to, don't force yourself, just make sure to talk to people every once in a while, so you don't lose the ability altogether.
I think I have a case of it too. I'm 16 as well :x sometimes I just feel too lazy to actually put any effort into conversing, I feel like i'll bore people if I don't try hard enough, if that makes sense. Some people are also just natural introverts, I am too,but I do enjoy to go out every so once in a while.
Gh school is where you meet life long friends, or so everyone says, so try and be more outgoing! Try and find the source of why you don't want to go out.Is it because you don't like those people, or is it because you're anxious about being able to converse well, or..? maybe try and say yes more often to invites?
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.