I have a boyfriend but im in love with another boy I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt his feelings?

1 I am not sure how old you are, but let me say this to you. If you do not love the boyfriend that you have, do not lead him on. As nicely and as kindly as you can, tell him that you just do not feel the same way that you used to feel about him.

Understand that he will be hurt and he may not want to remain your friend, but you should not lead someone on, number one, and you should not pretend that he is your boyfriend when you do not feel that way any longer about him. No you do not want to hurt his feelings and I understand that , but it will hurt his feelings much more if you pretend that you are his girlfriend when in essence you are dreaming of someone else.

2 Assuming you are not a virgin--another alternative would be to fantasize that he is the other boy when you are making love! .

What you feel is affection for a guy that has caught your attention. But since he belongs to someone else, your friend, longing for him amounts to lust. Because Lust is selfish and self-centered whereas Love is considerate, empathetic, and kind.

If you love your friend, you will be considerate towards her . You wouldn't want to hurt her feelings. Terminate the relationship.

Stick to your friend. She deserves to have her man. If you're not in love with your current boyfriend, there's no pointing keeping the relationship.

Let it go. Someone who will love your better than your dream will find you sooner or later. And you will be glad you didn't steal your friend's man.

So, what should you do now that he's hitting on you and you feel attracted to him? Just do what is right. Respect your friend.

Demonstrate your unalloyed friendship and loyalty. Show her you love her. Take your eyes off her man.

Have a straight talk with your friend's boyfriend. Let him know that you will not cheapen yourself to the point of cheating on your friend. And cut those intimacies.

Give him so distance. This may be painful to do especially since you're beginning to tune to his frequency. But know this.

It pays to do the right thing. And when you sow goodness, kindness, love, you reap it a thousand fold and more.

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