1 It contains compounds that can irritate your urinary tract, even without the caffeine. From what the missus tells, me, that isn't comfortable, so I would switch to something lighter, like herbal tea. Even some of those can be dicey, though, so read up on them.
2 Talk to your OB/Gyn. They will give you guidelines on a "safe" amount of decaff drinks. Yes, there are still trace amounts, but I remember being told that it was so low that a decaff drink, here and there would be ok.(decaff tea) Also, if you drink caffeinated drinks on a regular basis, ask for the best way to stop - and to not be miserable!
Mine didn't advocate cold turkey - but it was faster than the normal weaning off of caffeine. (I stopped drinking caffeinated drinks in my first pregnancy and rarely, if ever drink them now. ) .
3 A doc will tell you a little won't hurt and decaf is ok. Your hubby needs to back off and let the doc tell you what to eat and drink. If you are used to a certain degree of caffiene, you can't just go cold turkey.
You will have withdrawal symptoms which can't be good for the baby either. I drank one cup of cappucino a day or 2 cups of regular coffee with all 3 of my kids. I am sure hubby wants the best for baby and you..but..he isnt the doc and neither are we.
Most pregnant women I've encountered don't draw the line at chocolate! After reviewing all of the research, I personally eliminate coffee (and soda) but chocolate is a go! I’ll also drink decaf if I’m craving it (once in a blue moon ever since morning sickness helped eliminate a desire for coffee) and will even go for caffeinated tea once in a blue moon.
Perhaps it would be nice to share some of this with your husband so that you both feel good about the choices that you’re making.
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