I'm 16 and I want to marry my 21 yearold boyfriend. We've been together for two yrs. What do I need to get married?

I'm 16 and I want to marry my 21 yearold boyfriend. We've been together for two yrs. What do I need to get married.

I live in California. Asked by Lexie09 28 months ago Similar questions: 16 marry 21 yearold boyfriend yrs married Lifestyle > Relationships.

Similar questions: 16 marry 21 yearold boyfriend yrs married.

First............. your head examined. You are just a baby and in the eyes of the law, probably the 21 year old "craddle robber" can end up in jail. Listen to yourself asking a bunch of strangers how to do something that is not in your best interest.

If he really loves you he would be saying stay in school, get a diploma from a vocational school if you don’t want to go to college. I hope your parents are right on top of it. If you were my daughter I would have packed you stuff and sent you to another Country to stay with relatives until you became reasonable.

Lexie you will end up being someone's maid, cook and servant probably tide down with a bunch of kids and then..... he will leave you. Aim higher for yourself. Enough from me........... annoyed enough with the guy taking advantage of your young age..

1 First of all, you need to do a bit of maturing. What you see in a guy now at 16 is not what you are going to see in a guy when you are 21 or 25. (even more so when you are 30ish).

I suggest that you concentrate on your education. If he truly loves you, that is what he will want for you as well. If you hell bent on marriage, then go for a really long engagement.

Being married isn't like playing house. Its much more than you are ready to handle at such a tender age. Please, enjoy your teen years while you have them.

There will be plenty of time for marriage...waking up to the same person day after day after day....having them leave the toilet seat up ..or worse yet pee all over it...paying bills, having babies.....you get the idea ..when you are older and more able to emotionally handle it.

First of all, you need to do a bit of maturing. What you see in a guy now at 16 is not what you are going to see in a guy when you are 21 or 25. (even more so when you are 30ish).

I suggest that you concentrate on your education. If he truly loves you, that is what he will want for you as well. If you hell bent on marriage, then go for a really long engagement.

Being married isn't like playing house. Its much more than you are ready to handle at such a tender age. Please, enjoy your teen years while you have them.

There will be plenty of time for marriage...waking up to the same person day after day after day....having them leave the toilet seat up ..or worse yet pee all over it...paying bills, having babies.....you get the idea ..when you are older and more able to emotionally handle it.

2 You need to get a clue, and grow up first. You're not ready for marriage, and if you've been intimate with this guy, you've been dating a child molestor who should be convicted and registered as a sex offender for the rest of his life.

You need to get a clue, and grow up first. You're not ready for marriage, and if you've been intimate with this guy, you've been dating a child molestor who should be convicted and registered as a sex offender for the rest of his life.

3 What Jemsmom said. Don't be in such a hurry, enjoy being young. And are you sure that your in love with him or just love being with someone who is older and love what they can do, because they are older?

I would hazard a guess that if you were to spend time with any random guy who is 4-6 years older than you, that you may feel the same way about them. So, if your BF really loves you, he will let you finish school, and then stand behind you and support your wishes if you want to attend college or some other school of higher education. Because if you don't take advantage of getting an education now, it will almost be impossible once you are stuck with children and keeping up a household.

Hopefully your BF is one of the nice/good, guys and will not shirk his responsibilities and will be gainfully employed and help you around the house, not sit on his a$$ and play videogames and drink with his buddies, etc. Good luck with everything.

What Jemsmom said. Don't be in such a hurry, enjoy being young. And are you sure that your in love with him or just love being with someone who is older and love what they can do, because they are older?

I would hazard a guess that if you were to spend time with any random guy who is 4-6 years older than you, that you may feel the same way about them. So, if your BF really loves you, he will let you finish school, and then stand behind you and support your wishes if you want to attend college or some other school of higher education. Because if you don't take advantage of getting an education now, it will almost be impossible once you are stuck with children and keeping up a household.

Hopefully your BF is one of the nice/good, guys and will not shirk his responsibilities and will be gainfully employed and help you around the house, not sit on his a$$ and play videogames and drink with his buddies, etc. Good luck with everything.

4 California: If either the bride or groom is under 18, at least one of the minor's parents, or legal guardian, must appear with the couple. Certified copies of birth certificates are required. The couple must also schedule an appointment with a counselor and then appear before a superior court judge.

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California: If either the bride or groom is under 18, at least one of the minor's parents, or legal guardian, must appear with the couple. Certified copies of birth certificates are required. The couple must also schedule an appointment with a counselor and then appear before a superior court judge.

wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_minimum_a....

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