I'm in a long distance relationship I need advice STAT?

Long distance relationships end in one of two ways.1. One person moves to be with the other person.2. The relationship slowly fades away.

One of the reasons most people seek to avoid getting involved in long distance relationships is because they don't want to move away from where they live. They also don't want to risk becoming emotionally involved with someone that is not likely to move to their town. Another disadvantage to long distance relationships is the difficulty with having disagreements and making up.

You're pretty much left to communicate using the phone and computers. (Neither option allows you to see a person's face reacting to what you have to say. ) It's easy to ignore the phone and emails when one is angry.

Most people in long distance relationships talk to each other multiple times during the day as well as instant message or send emails. They also take turns going to visit with each other at least once a month or more. They mail each other little trinkets (books, cards, post cards...etc)However in the end for the relationship to go to" the next level" someone is going to have to move.

I would think after 2 years of being together one or both of you would have brought up the subject of moving. If no one was is willing to move then the end of the relationship is pretty much just a matter time.

Use Skype everyday I swear it helps-I do this and feel what your going through ugh USE SKYPE! Free!

Many times when one feels distanced or disconnected, it could mean that there is trouble in paradise. If there is still great communication in spite of the fact you two are far apart, then just ask. Let him know that you love him and that you have been feeling as if things have changed; that you are growing apart.

Maybe it could be your mind playing games on you. Perhaps, he is going through something that is stressful that is not your fault or it could be that the distance is starting to take a toll on the relationship. Whatever it is, you will not get answers unless you ask a question or raise the subject.It would not hurt as well to question yourself.

Are you happy with the relationship? Are you becoming disillusioned with the distance between you two? Hopefully, if its something minor, and you are convinced that the problem is not the relationship, then maybe its coming to where you guys need to bridge the gap and get closer.

If things remain unchanged after talking, you may have to consider whether or not the relationship has run its course. I wish you the best. Feel free to contact me.

I'm with Kimberly....Skype is the way! It is incredibly important to expand the avenues of communication, but that still pales in defining the absolute wonderful nature of seeing that someone's expression and body language, critical issues to any conversation, let alone your loved one, and Skype allows for that..And again, as Kimberly pointed out, its free, so that empowers hours of not just conversation, but just being with them, even quiet time while you both work on the computer or write, while, with just a glance, you see them and truly feel that you are there with them.. it's quite magical...Run, don't walk to Skype that loved one...it'll make all the difference in the world....but of course, nothing beats being with them, so get yourself there...whatever the cost!

Well I'm a guy, a poet, a friend of aquired knowledge, a man of good scence. Long distant relationship's most always result in one or the other cheating, (I do not beleive it is considered cheating in all cases. )Humans need companionship, sex, intimacy, release from study/work, ext.My advice to you is play the field, get aquainted with others, form a social network, don't instill all your faith in this guy/girl if there is a little bit of a chance there seeing other people because you may be missing out on your chance to shine with a more compatible lover.

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