Is he masking his feelings or was he too drunk?
On the one hand they want you to feel special and they want you to let your guard down, but on the other they don't want to do that thenselves! I know and it's not really very fair, but they can be smooth devils too. From what I can see here, it seems to me that the only time he wants to be with you is when he's loaded - and that ain't a good thing.
I hate to use the term "booty call," but that's kind of what it sounds like. If he's "too shy" or just treats you like someone else in the room when he's sober, then he's not doing the right thing as far as YOUR feelings go. Hooking up and being together should be a consistant thing, not just when it's conveinent for him (or late at night and after a few shots...) The damnable thing is, it sounds like even when he's loaded, he can tell you exactly what you want to hear - and you have to remember that.
If he really cared and REALLY meant those things that "slip out," then he'd be trying a little harder to be around you during those non-party times. So you can do two things here: enjoy yourself and know that he's doing this for himself (because that's what it sounds like to me) and you are just having fun, OR you can talk to him (alone and sober) about what the deal is and what he wants out of this. Don't make it a confrontation - far from it - just use your female charm, be sweet and nice and just ask him where he weants this to go.
If he can't give you an answer that you like, it's time to tell him he can't play any more and not to call you. Especially after he's been drinking (and TRUST me - even AFTER that convo, he WILL get loaded and he WILL call you. Bank on it - and DON'T CAVE IN!
) Good luck baby girl... Remember, stay true to yourself. Chin up then!
His name is nick, and he always gets much more comfortable and open with me when he is drunk. We had kissed twice before when he got like that. So then I talked to him in his room, and he was drunk at the time again, and he made it very clear that he wanted us to just both have fun.
It wasnt really a mean or sleezy thing, it was kind of just like "im enjoying freshman college year and I don't want to commit to anything." so I kind of accepted and respected that. But I also set him straight that it was kind of hard for me, because im not like that, and my feelings doooo get in the way of things like this. And he told me he didn't want to mess with me or anything so he'd stop, but I didn't want him to leave me like that, I still wanted him.
So we kind of hooked up, and when we did, he kept slipping out all this stuff and I don't know how much of it he really meant.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.
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