Is it cheating for a married guy, 40, to rub noses Eskimo-style with an attractive, ~21-year-old EF?

Ah, well, that's irrelevant to the question. It might be sacrilegious and go against the Church's teachings since you know she thinks of you as a daddy and so much more, and you are harboring some feelings for her that aren't very fatherly. Of course, if you weren't harboring any naughty feelings for her and that wouldn't be an issue with you, then perhaps you could be a good sponsor for her.

Help her get her life straightened out and guide her until she meets a nice young man closer to her age. Maybe you can help her get over her "daddy complex" and if that's the case, go ahead.

Eddie, given the "relationship" you have with her, I think this would be just fine to do for her. Why wouldn't she think of you, you mean one heck of a lot to her. She completely trusts you in every way & knows she can put her trust in you & knows you would do rite by her.

I also think the choice of "Edna" was/is a perfect name for her to choose. By all means don't even give this second tho't...best to you, Eddie...:).

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