Your husband married you for a reason, he loves you. I am in a similar situation. I actually know my boyfriends best girl friend is in LOVE with him.
And I admit it.. I feel a bit annoyed and jealous whenever my boyfriend hangs out with her. But I trust him and he's told me not to worry about it. But they're friends and I don't wanna meddle into their friendship.
I could never do that to my boyfriend. My advice is to tell your husband how you feel just so you can express your feelings. For me it helped a lot.
And trust. Trust him.
He laughed and said he likes it when I'm jealous" Well, that's your real problem. Not her. Ask him if he'd think it was cute or entertaining if you were planning a special private getaway, and suddenly invited some other guy to join in on the fun.
You understand that you can't control who he's friends with and don't want to feel like you have to, but if he can't set appropriate boundaries and consider you before he brings her in on stuff that affects both of you, this is going to be a serious issue. And if he still doesn't get it, then get yourself to counseling before you make any more wedding celebration plans, because you might've rushed things when it came to the actual vows.
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